I always liked to use something for lubrication more (felt better to me) but for some reason lotion actually DRIES your skin in that area so the friction caused be "doing my thing" can cause the skin to crack and that well and truly SUCKS. So for me dry is actually SAFER for preventing that. Of course I think KY or something that is actually MADE for that won't dry out my skin... but I'm to embarrassed to go buy some and I certainly won't ask my parents for it!
I dunno what to use? I'm getting tired of staying dry but I can't use lotion because it actually dries my skin out.... any suggestions?