This may be hard to grasp, but this is her way of helping you. She thinks that the only way to help you is through all this profesional help, which clearly you do not seem to need to this extensity. I don't know if you can get her to understand, but try. Sit her down and have a talk with her. Even if you already have. Be sure to mention your feelings a lot, as adults like that.
Sic Semper Tyrannis