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Old January 5th, 2008, 01:15 AM  
IAMSAM
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Default Re: Depressed about sexual confusion

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Originally Posted by yayMaddy View Post
Why stress about it? Well unless you've been in one of our situations maybe you wouldn't be saying that..
That is definitely not something I would be happy about. Maybe because it doesn't seem right, or because it doesn't feel like you. To be honest, I'm not sure. I would never be interest in dating, kissing, hugging, or having sex with a girl.. So why do I get worried all of the time?
In fact, typing that sentence seemed a little off.

My point is that if there are so many other things that could be causing you to question who you are, why are you stressing about it? It's not like you've reached some clear, confident conclusion about this. You're worried about the potential of something maybe possibly happening.

I understand that you wouldn't want to be gay, and these thoughts are very stressful. Maybe if you put a different spin on them, if you adjusted your perspective (that it might NOT mean what you fear), then you might be able to not feel so worried and stressed.

How old are you, btw?
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