Re: poping the cherry
The pain associated with the tearing of the hymn is different than the pain of first openning of the vagina walls. Before you have had sex or inserted anything bigger than a tampon inside the vaginal canal the walls of the vagina normally lie close together and the first time a penis enters the vagina there is some pain or discomfort for some girls which can last for awhile afterwards. Like others have said most girls tear their hymns from non sexual activities and sports or by inserting things into the vagina while masturbating. I doubt the serious pain your talking about has anything to do with your hymn being torn if it last for several days. If it persist maybe you should consult a doctor or at the least tell your mom.