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Old August 14th, 2004, 06:14 PM  
teenboy9
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Well if what you say is true, why should anyone get married? If its just a stupid ceremony? Marriage is something (hetertosexual or homosexual) people like not because they need it to be happy, but it is a way to express a loving comitment to each other that makes it feel like the two are bound to each other. I think you have been getting a lot of pain from the life your mom wants to lead. She is gay, and just like everyone else she to completly accept and love herself to be happy. The world is not always accepting, but something like this is something she NEEDS to do. You have to understand that, and work through your views, and the problems which have developed for YOU because your mom is gay. To solve YOUR problems, you need to resolve YOUR feelings about your moms life to be happy, not just stop your moms life so you can be happy.
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