Re: I need help
You should go out with who you like. Going out with someone out of guilt or obligation is a lousy reason to do so. Both of you will feel lousy.
It's okay to turn someone down, but it's not okay to hurt them. There's a diff, you can be very gracious and still say no. Be nice, be a gentleman, and kindly tell her how flattered you are but you do not like her that way.