Re: A Dillema...
You have to. If you care about him, you want him safe right? If that means a ruined relationship well then, he doesnt care about the fact that you didnt want him hurt so you took action. If you really want him safe, either convince him to stop on his own or get him help.
When health problems arise then you have too ways what you could have made it turn out.
1. He keeps doing it and you dont tell. He eventually gets a illness. you then think "Oh no. I knew this whole time and didnt do anything or tell anyone."
2. you stop him just in time either by talking or telling someone and you think. "Oh my gosh. I saved him."
and if he dont like it then... at least you did the right thing
Last edited by Brandon639; September 15th, 2007 at 09:16 PM.