Re: Oral: Sex or Not?
I think we're splitting hairs here. oral sex is sexual behavior between 2 people. Eventhough it's not intercourse, it' still sexual. So, strictly speaking, having oral sex doesn't mean you're not a virgin, but it does mean you're sexually active. Maybe it's the difference between a noun and a verb.
Alot of people feel better 'only' having oral sex because they feel they haven't broken some rule and that technically they're still 'pure'. But like most technicalities, eventhough they might live up to the letter of the law, they really don't live up to the spirit of the law, so to speak.