Yeah, Vaseline jelly is a waste (messy as hell!). I don't like to use Vaseline products, but I would at least advise that you go with the lotion. As for me; the best skin lotion that I've used (and still use as my ONLY lube) is Lubriderm skin lotion. I mean, look at the name even! Well in my opinion it's the best (in terms of lotions that aren't made specifically for... that).