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Old August 21st, 2007, 01:50 PM  
Name: Valerie
Join Date: June 12, 2007
Location: PA
Age: 27
Gender: Female
Blog Entries: 12
Default Re: i'm confused about my sexuality! i really need some advice!

General Puberty Teen Sexuality

You may just be confused, but I doubt it. If you've never been attracted to guys before and have no doubt that you're gay, chances are you are.

Originally Posted by MoveAlong View Post
First off, welcome to VT!

So anyway, are you emotionally attracted to girls? Like, do you love their personalities? Whether or not this is a yes, based on the info I could say that you are a lesbian.

Secondly, about your parents. I think that they are in denial if you explained it to them and they didn't believe you. Of course, they might have just thought this was recent and really believed that you're going through a stage - everybody does.

And last, about your crush! I think you should get to know her, and have fun with her during the summer. I think you should stay friends...and then you could come out to her once she really gets to know you. After that, once she's comfortable with it, you could tell her you like her.
I would tell a guy that I like him, and then I'd say if you're straight (or if they're seeing someone) then I'd say "I just had to confess, but it's ok and I'll accept that we won't do anything. Still just friends? "
Ditto all of the above
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