Re: my friend,
it might be a good thing, depending on her lifestyle. if (hypothetically...) she loves to cook stuff, and her parents dont trust her with even kitchen knives, thats not a good thing. or if she likes to build stuff, or do crafts that use certain sharp things... being cut off from these things would just make her more unhappy, and more desperate to self harm.
...but she was blind to this...
~i am rowan hear me roar