Originally Posted by lilmandrewl
well what i think what i enjoyed was that it was something different than i was used too... but i also think i disliked it because it was something that if anyone found out would humiliate me and make people think i was gay, even though i'm only bi-curious/straight. i guess the mix between the two makes it hard to decide what i want to be..
Maybe you don't have to decide anything, then, and see of the urge comes over you again.
At 14, I think everything seems sexual, which is natural. just because some of those urges might be directed at other guys does NOT make you gay. Homosexuality is more about emotional attraction than sexual attraction.