Originally Posted by rok.my.sox
Having a girlfriend shouln'd be about sex.
Exactly. If you and your girlfriend are just in a relationship for sex, it's not a real relationship. If/when you do get a girlfriend, you need to actually voice the boundaries you want to set- so that nothing is left to imagination or assumption. Just sit her down one day and tell her that sex isn't something that you feel should/can be part of your relationship. If she's a good girlfriend, she'll understand and won't mock you for it. And I know for a fact there are HS girls out there who would agree- myself and all my friends included. All relationships need set boundaries.