Well, I've had sex with my girlfriend of about 8 or 9 months...I mean, I guess if you want to call it sex. But we agreed to not have vaginal sex...just in case so we stuck with oral and anal. But I guess it's all in what you put out there. Sometimes speaking your mind about sex to your peers can help you. And there is nothing you can do about undeveloped things..hell, I'm undeveleped (not totally for my age, but still, I definately dont have a big dick). But personally, if theres nothing you can do about it, why care? I mean, you can't do anything to speed up puberty, so you might as well be yourself and go with the flow.