Originally Posted by MoveAlong
Well the question is that why do people think that? It's stupid...a gay guy doesn't want to be a girl, and a lesbian doesn't want to be a guy. A person who wants to change their sex is called a transsexual.
And no I will not rape you!!
No, but thing is, gay guys tend to be more feminine(some wear make-up, bright colours and even purses). So, since they have effeminate characteristics, people classify them as girly.
Same goes for lesbians, they get emasculate qualities, and are classified as butch(wear boy clothes, try to achieve large muscular bodies).
Postscript- You aren't gay obviously, since you've said so yourself. You're just going to have to come to the realization that you are a girl, and will never be a boy. There's not many things that girls can't do that guys can, so just do what you enjoy. I know plenty of tom-boys who have boyfriends and et cetera.