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Old July 15th, 2007, 05:45 AM  
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Name: Stephen
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Default Re: I need to dump him !

Originally Posted by Archduke Robert of France View Post
Hmm, you should try to explain to him that he needs to change his personailty and become more social. Or, since you're with the proverbial "in" crowd, you can help him with the transition, but not get back together with him until he changes.

thats all good in theory but i don't think you could ask someone to change their personality. i've tried doing that to fit in but i found i was much better off being myself. people accepted me for who i am and not for trying to be someone i'm not. if a person is naturally quiet and somewhat of a loner then thats who they are, you can't make them be really social and i think that if he tried in this case he would feel very uncomfortable because thats not who he is.


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