Originally Posted by redcar
Being gay is not easy, and its even worse discovering you are gay.
I can understand this, I'm lucky in that I didn't really have a hard time coming to terms with my sexuality, but I know how other people feel about their sexuality, so I can understand why people ask whether they're gay. And I think Alex is right in saying that people want to be reassured, because they do.
When I first discovered I was gay, I honestly had no clue what these feelings were, whether they were normal and had no one to talk to or no way of verifying what was going on.
VT changed all that, specifically this diary and the work that James did. I owe a lot to this diary, so now I guess it's my turn to help others.