Re: this sounds stupid but i need help
You may just need to open up a bit. I know what it's like to feel the family thing. Find yourself a nice guy or a lovely gal you like and ask them out (unless you're a gal and wanna be traditional, in which case you wait and hint like mad). Relationship is inevitable, the way I see it. And if that doesn't get you somewhere, your time will come, I promise, it will. Someday someone will just fall right into your lap and l'amour will take it's natural course in your life.
"I'm the other daughter...I'm beautifully tragic."
-Elphaba "Thropp" aka The Wicked Witch of the West (from Wicked, the musical, though the book is also excellent, might I add)