Re: almost everytime..
You should definitely confide in her about it. That's one thing I've learned in the past (the hard way, might I add): you should always talk to those who are employed to give you aid.
"I'm the other daughter...I'm beautifully tragic."
-Elphaba "Thropp" aka The Wicked Witch of the West (from Wicked, the musical, though the book is also excellent, might I add)