Originally Posted by wes
first im going to say im not gay and secont just put some alchohal on it no not the kind you drink
NO! This is not safe; it can burn right up your asshole. Sure, you might use alcohol and then rinse it off, but it isn't a good way to do this in the first place. Warm water and hand soap/dish soap works fine.
Being gay has nothing to do with it - some straight guys like to be fingered by their girlfriends and there's even sex toys for this!