Re: Pleasing a girl....
Rubbing the clitoris is probably going to be the way she gets herself off. But, by God, communicate, man. You're in this girl's pants...you should at least talk to her. Have her tell you what she likes, get her feedback. She's not expecting you to be Mr. Magic Hands.
"I don't believe in magic. But I do believe in interpreting coincidence exactly the way you want to." -Sherman Alexie