Re: would a guy think i'm lying about my virginity?
Most guys educated enough to know what breaking the hymen is like would know you aren't lying. If the mutual trust is strong enough for there to be sex, I'd sure hope he's taking your word for it.
I also agree that most guys would be too mentally preoccupied.
"I don't believe in magic. But I do believe in interpreting coincidence exactly the way you want to." -Sherman Alexie