Originally Posted by mhough11
I also have a girlfriend and I'm afraid i'm going to get dumped because she thinks I'm a loser that I masturbate. What do I do? I NEED HELP!!
To everything else I agree with what they've said (and I'm not saying they're advice to this was bad either, it was equally as good), but anyway, when you ask her, make it sound like you won't mind if she says no. What ever you do, don't try to pressure her into it, the results could be disastrous. Just say something like, Um, I was just wondering, are you interested in having sex? And if she says no, say something like, Oh its ok, you could even say that you're willing to wait, or w/e, just make it seem like shes in charge in terms of who is making the decision. Just be as careful as possible, don't say something stupid, and don't lose your cool if she says no. I hope this advice was hopeful, I'm a virgin so no guarantees