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Old May 11th, 2007, 06:42 PM  
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Join Date: April 23, 2007
Location: New England.
Age: 24
Gender: Female
Default Re: I need guy help pleasey?

Firstly, i know enough about relationships to be talking about them, and i know how a guy ACTUALLY FEELS, in fact, I'd say that i know more than you do about it.

notice how i underlined and bolded "thinks".

thats doesn't mean that he IS leading you on, but he might think that he is.

and from my experience, if a girl that i didn't want to be "relationshiply" connected to, then if i gave her any attention at all, then i would think that she thought that i was going out of my way and that i cared about her the same way, in which case, she might give her hopes up, and then in the long run, being led on.

lastly, don't be telling me that im giving you bad advice. i am a guy, i know how guys think. i am giving you a GREAT perspective of what he might and probably is thinking.

im not going to really compare it to this, but i think that you are in denial that he might not like you. its not about me telling you that, "he might not like you". its about m giving you advice that you should highly consider.

It's not about you being a guy, you're not EVERY guy.
You could be outspoken and worldly, while another guy could be shy and sweet.
Like my best friend.
He acts nothing like you.
And true, you know how guys think and feel, but you don't know how EVERY guy thinks and feels.
Just because you are like that doesn't mean every other guy in this world is.

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