Re: self harmer
Ah. School nurses. I had one of those see my scars when I was vaccinated against something or other, and she never brought it up. Even though stuff like that is supposedly one of the main things they are supposed to look out for. I was pretty relieved, but I can see that it must be frustrating if you are looking for help. If this is a problem for you, you have voiced this, and they still won't take you seriously, I would definitely change therapists. You shouldn't have to put up with them not taking you seriously. I could always be that they see the self-harm as more of a symptom and they're trying to treat what's behind it instead of the actual harming or something, I don't know, I'm no therapist, but it seems weird that they won't even mention it.