Re: *** Post ALL Masturbation Discussion HERE ***
I've been masturbating for a few years now, coming to it gradually. At first I was really embarrassed about it but now I just find it normal. But that's not my point. I'm not sure if what I'm having is considered an orgasm. I usually just rub my clit but eventually I get what I think is an orgasm but the only thing that happens is I tense up and then I try to rub again but the entire area hurts to touch. Not a lot of pain but it becomes uncomfortable (but at the same time, I'm left slightly satisfied). Is this normal for anyone else?
Also, does anyone have some tips for loosening up? I tried to finger myself last night instead of rubbing (my usual method)... I've never had orgasm from fingering for some reason, but I was really tight and I couldn't even get my finger in...
I've been able to finger myself before but never got any real pleasure out of it. I always end up finishing by rubbing my clit again. Any suggestions?