Re: Can I change this?
If I were you I wouldn't cross love off immediately. I mean, you don't have to have sex with someone to love them.
Sex is not the be all and end all. Hell, most the time I wish I was asexual! Life without sex or interest in sex would be, for me, blissful!
Is it not possible to, as many gays/bisexuals do, keep your family in the dark about it? It's not ideal but it's better than stressing over their reaction. As someone already said, your friends will probably provide the best support for you.
~ The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step ~
* Nothing in the world has ever been accomplished without passion *