Re: self harmer
It surprises me that a doctor would say something like that. What my boyfriend always says when I try to argue that it's ok as long as it doesn't get out of hand and I put my life in danger etc. is that it's the mentality that counts, and even if someone doesn't self-harm, but just wants to, they still have a problem.
I don't fully believe this (when he starts it, I just waaave and smile, boys, wave and smile!), but it sounds like something I would expect from a doctor!