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Old August 14th, 2011, 01:22 PM  
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Originally Posted by cutevon View Post
just an update..i'm having my training for my varsity team every afternoon....normally our training would end up at around 7pm...every after i play, i tend to perspire a lot, leaving my t-shirt, shorts including my brief extremely wet....we don't have dressing area and so a lot of us just change our clothes beside the court area...for some, including me, we change on the latter area beside the court because its so dark their that no one could see you undressing clothes....there was a time that i removed my shirt and shorts on that area and cooled down for some minutes...i wiped my sweat off then noticed that my underwear is so damn wet also so i decided also to change it knowing that their are no people around and that it's so dark...i also felt that the wind blows colder that time and so it dried up my sweat...then when i removed my underwear...i sat down for a while looking for my extra underwear..but i noticed that i'm now having an erection without being horny on something or someone...then after some minutes i felt that i will be ejaculating..i tried to control it but it suddenly it forced was my first time to release it on outside...Does anyone here experienced this? What do you think is the reason why this happened to me? thnks..hoping that sombody can relate to this..
I'm not entirely sure what you're saying. I gathered that you were naked outside and you got an erection, then ejaculated without touching? If so then that's not exactly normal but some people can do it. If not then I don't really know.

Originally Posted by itsbrad View Post
Can you masturbate too much?
Only if it begins to get in the way of other things in your life and/or you start to feel pain before/after/during masturbation.

Originally Posted by dustcakes View Post
I looked on WebMD and they said that masturbating could lead to sexual dysfunction when having sex with someone else if you masturbate too fast or grip too hard, i.e. you do it 'too good' and real sex isn't the same after desensitizing you.

Is this really true? If so, how do you make sure you don't desensitize yourself to real sex, like how fast should you pump and everything? I don't want to snuff out my sex life before it begins lol.
As long as you aren't causing yourself any pain then everything should be fine, with regards to physical desensitising.

Originally Posted by dustcakes View Post
I have another question- is it possible to become desensitized to pornography? I'm a 16 year old and I only discovered the majesty of masturbation this week (how I lived for the past 16 years; I don't know) but I'm sexually inexperienced and I don't have any memories to really go on. I have some experiences looking up girls skirts and that type of thing, but that's not really enough to get me over the hump into orgasm.

So therefore I've been using porn to fill my needs out of necessity, but I'm scared I'll be desensitized quickly, because it only takes 1-2 mins of watching a video to orgasm. It seems likely that once I get more used to cumming I won't go as quickly or as on-demand as I do now and I'll be out of luck.

So a: is it possible to get desensitized to porn? and b: If it is, how do you stave it off? Does simply masturbating less often help keep your edge?
First off, a lot of people watch porn whilst masturbating - I'd imagine more do than don't to be honest. Secondly, 1-2 minutes isn't that long any way (not criticizing) so I wouldn't be too worried. Plus I don't actually think you can become desensitised to porn - not to a noticeable degree any way. Finally, to avoid any kind of desensitising I'd just masturbate less - if you're doing it once a day (or more) then cut it down to a few times a week.

Originally Posted by Captain-Tybo View Post
Are there any sites with guides or advice about masturbation?
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I wonder how many ways there are to masturbate?

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