I guess I always have been bi. I remember always finding girls pretty sexy. I didn't put any thought into it. I decided there was nothing "odd" about this. Then I started dating my boyfriend and well, let's just say we and our friends have had many conversations so I started thinking 'well maybe I am' so I talked to my 'big sister' a good friend who is bi and i asked the questions. After that I thought about it a lot more. Then I decided I was. I told a couple of my friends, a couple cousins, and my boyfriend. I haven't told my family, they're way too churchy. But now, if someone at school says something bad about gays, lesbians or bi's, I can stand up and throw it in their face that they're being a giant jerk.