It's because you're too concerned about getting a cool, popular guy... And, cool and popular 9 times out of 10 comes hand in hand with being a prick. Try giving some of the more quiet guys a chance.
Basically, get to know the person better. Anyway, I'd say some bull about how you'll find a great guy some day, but maybe you won't. Who knows, life is pretty random. Maybe you'll be one of those people who are real suckers for punishment~
All my friends are skeletons,
dulcimers and chariots
prayers to God, oh prayers to God
Was I sleeping all this time?
Was my shadow ever mine?Wintersleep-Danse Macabre