Re: Okay So....
Excuse me, what happened to our good advice team?
We need MUCH more background information first. For example, since Christmas seemed to be something significant, is she a fundamentalist christian who would say you are immoral? How old are you? I made the first hand mistake of deciding to tell people about being gay at too young of an age (13 and 14) and now I am having second thought about whether I really am, which is kind of embarassing to just say "Oh I'm not after all". Think about that a bit before telling her.