Re: Saying no to a BJ
In my opinion, when you have sex with someone.. Or even a friendly wrestle or just sleep/snuggle/what-have-you you kind of get connected to that person. Like, friends over the internet is kind of like a mental bond and 'friends with benefits' would be a physical bond. You kind of connect with the person when you have sex with them/make out, and it can hurt if you even lose that kind of relationship.
I think the chinese call what I was explaining "skinship" or something... Anyway, that's what I think.
All my friends are skeletons,
dulcimers and chariots
prayers to God, oh prayers to God
Was I sleeping all this time?
Was my shadow ever mine?Wintersleep-Danse Macabre