Re: A relationship
I wouldn't really say I love you to her...that's kind of a misuse of the word. I personally think love is a mutual thing, if they don't love you back, it's a crush.
I've dated a girl for 2 months without saying I love you. It's because it would've been rushing things. Love is a commitment, you don't want to rush, it'll scare the average girl awayy.
Personally take the other guys advice up until "I love you" instead just bring up "what would you think if I were to ask you out?"
something along those lines.