we have done a lot to make them hate us, like invading their countries, killing them, etc.
OK, you are talking about two differen't things here.
-They bomb us (with airliners) or try and blow us up with boats (uss cole?, kole?) and barak bombing. To STOP THEM
IT ISN"T THE OTHER WAY AROUND
ur logic doesn't make sense.
its like saying if some beats you up, then you shouldn't try and get them arrested cuz that would only make them more angry. Instead we should avoid them and invest in a suit of plate mail, and hope that they never buy a gun (NUKE.. hint hint)