Originally Posted by pretty&&chokedup
i have decided i may not. i mean him and i have a lot of problems right now and i am really scared.
Well, first of all I wouldn't even do it until these "problems" are solved. DON'T do it if you're scared or have doubts (that's a sign of NOT being ready). Just because you've had sex before doesn't mean that you were/are going to be ready for it again. DON'T do it if he refuses to wear protection, for obvious reasons, and if I were you I would get on bc again before you even thought about it, and remember the pill takes a month to be considered effective. You know better than most that a baby is definately not one of those things that "can't happen to me" so don't take it lightly. I wish ya'll both the best of luck