Re: How Modest, is too Modest?
It might help for you to sit down and familiarize yourself with your body and become more comfortable with it before you're comfortable talking to others about it. Just take some time to take a look at yourself in a mirror, say the names of all your body parts out loud, then when you feel comfortable doing this maybe you could try talking to your mom about any problems or w/e, ask her what it was like when she went through puberty. Eventually you'll be more comfortable with your body and sexuality and learn to like it. I wasn't very comfortable with my body, but now I go nude much of the time, and I talk to people about sexuality on vt, and learning to accept their bodies and who they are.