Thanks a bunch, I'll try that right this week, I think. I've never really talked much to people, and now that I'm forcing myself to do it, I find it is much, much harder than I thought it was, and wow, especially saying nice stuff to girls :X
I never plan or force anything in dates. True to my personal experience with oral productions, I find it is MUCH easier if I go around improvising everything.
Anyway, thanks again