Re: apparently i ruin lives.
Well, now you gotta accept that shes part of your family, and sooner or later she will move in with ya... just accept her, as how she is... maybe she was feeling really good, and started to think you guys were having a good relationship (I mean as friends), and then, you come, and blow it off by saying "you don't even live here..."
I don't know since I don't even live with ya, but that might be it.... just apologize to her, for saying something that was wrong, not because of being mean.
Odi et amo. Quare id faciam, fortasse requiris.
Nescio, sed fieri sentio et excrucior.
~Harrie's proud brother!~