Re: where am i at?
#1: everybody grows at different rates. so you're going along just fine
#2: if you have no interest in girls but get turned on by guys, then you might be gay. like me, i liked girls' personality, but never got turned on by girls. i always liked guys too, and got turned on by them too. so it's up to you. you might choose to be gay, and just be friends with some girls, or you could be bi, and go both ways, or you might just choose to be straight, and ignore the fact you get turned on by guys.