Re: How did you first find out you were gay or bi?
I never got this "sexual attraction" stuff. Fooling around is fun, and it feels good. Whoever I am with, if they are not mean and not ugly or anything, and if they might want to, then lets fool around. Its not like penetration or anything.
I guess I should feel a deep meaningful emotional attraction. Hopefully someday I will, though I hear that is full of pain and disappointment. It was quite a while before I realized that not everyone was bi.