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DragonflySphere February 6th, 2018 05:50 AM

Depressed and angry
 
At school, there isn't many people for me to hang around with so I turned to an unpopular group within the school and it still isn't working out. While there are a few people who I'd consider my friend. Most of them ignore me/use me but there are about 4 that are just a pain in the arse to me. They constantly push me around, punch and kick me, call me worthlessness and often tell me to go kill myself. Part of me feels as though I want to throw them through a window but I'm not strong enough and I don't have the guts to retaliate or tell somebody. As a result of this, I keep getting pushed further and further into depression. If that isn't bad enough, my dad's girlfriend is a bitch to me, she thinks of me as a guy who sits on their arse and would spend a week in the one spot and at the same time, not pay attention to anybody. I believe it's because we don't have anything in common but she thinks she is always right so I just shut up and put up with her bullcrap. I do feel as though I can't handle all this and my depression and anger levels have risen a lot. What can I do? I just want this over and done with.

jerrion February 6th, 2018 10:55 AM

Re: Depressed and angry
 
To deal with bullies at school talk to your teachers , they can help . As for your dads gr i dont know rly maybe try to get in touch somehow... If you feel lonely try to do things that you enjoy and dont really care if people ignore you . try to get friends in school boys or girls whatever , just go talk to them and see how it goes , dont be disappointed just keep looking forward. if you feel like you have nothing to do just start a new exercise like a sport and there might be other people your age there so you can make new friends . sorry i didnt post earlier i hope i helped somehow!

DragonflySphere February 7th, 2018 05:54 AM

Re: Depressed and angry
 
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Originally Posted by jerrion (Post 3628964)
To deal with bullies at school talk to your teachers , they can help . As for your dads gr i dont know rly maybe try to get in touch somehow... If you feel lonely try to do things that you enjoy and dont really care if people ignore you . try to get friends in school boys or girls whatever , just go talk to them and see how it goes , dont be disappointed just keep looking forward. if you feel like you have nothing to do just start a new exercise like a sport and there might be other people your age there so you can make new friends . sorry i didnt post earlier i hope i helped somehow!

Thanks for replying. I can't really tell the teachers going on what's happened the last few times. The first time somebody was calling me a weak twig so I tripped him and said "Who's the weak one now?" And sadly I got a detention for it even though I explained to the teachers what physical and verbal actions he had done before (He was a bully to me but now that he's realised how much taller I am than him he has half backed off). The second time I was putting up with somebody who was my height but was much stronger and he never liked me. He used to push me into walls, doors, windows and sometimes people as well as make fun of my looks and strength so one day after he pushed me, I turned around and punched him as hard as I could. I ended up getting suspended for a week even though he continued to bully other people (he still bullies me although it's more just verbal than physical). The third time was a bully who seemed to punch/kick me whenever I was in sight. After a couple months of putting up with it I told a teacher who told me to not make up lies about people and to carry on with my work. After telling her I wasn't lying and showing her a bruise I had gotten the previous day, she sent me to the office and got my parents contacted for fusing to listen to a teacher (it was also obvious the teachers talked about it because some of the teachers seemed to dislike me a couple days after). After that I never told a teacher what had happened as I know it'll have the same result because they think I'm a waste of their time even though I try my best and actually do well.

New friends probably aren't a chance because I go to a fairly small school and their is 4 friend groups. One I tried and everybody ignored the fact I was even there. The next don't even like me (don't know why, probably appearance), there is the one I am in now and then there is the last group who find me irritating. I might have to try some sports that go to more distant places because most of the local sports are people in my class. It's definitely worth a shot though.

Getting in touch with my dad's girlfriend may be a chance. I'll have to work out what we both like though. Maybe I could do that over the next few days.

Thanks for your response.

rioo February 7th, 2018 07:38 AM

Re: Depressed and angry
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by DragonflySphere (Post 3628942)
At school, there isn't many people for me to hang around with so I turned to an unpopular group within the school and it still isn't working out. While there are a few people who I'd consider my friend. Most of them ignore me/use me but there are about 4 that are just a pain in the arse to me. They constantly push me around, punch and kick me, call me worthlessness and often tell me to go kill myself. Part of me feels as though I want to throw them through a window but I'm not strong enough and I don't have the guts to retaliate or tell somebody. As a result of this, I keep getting pushed further and further into depression. If that isn't bad enough, my dad's girlfriend is a bitch to me, she thinks of me as a guy who sits on their arse and would spend a week in the one spot and at the same time, not pay attention to anybody. I believe it's because we don't have anything in common but she thinks she is always right so I just shut up and put up with her bullcrap. I do feel as though I can't handle all this and my depression and anger levels have risen a lot. What can I do? I just want this over and done with.

You can use your phone to record everything, put that on your pocket shirt. Use the tape as an evidence for teacher at school, even cops. And I'm sure some building have cctv inside.

CjDj2001 February 9th, 2018 12:01 AM

Re: Depressed and angry
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by DragonflySphere (Post 3628942)
At school, there isn't many people for me to hang around with so I turned to an unpopular group within the school and it still isn't working out. While there are a few people who I'd consider my friend. Most of them ignore me/use me but there are about 4 that are just a pain in the arse to me. They constantly push me around, punch and kick me, call me worthlessness and often tell me to go kill myself. Part of me feels as though I want to throw them through a window but I'm not strong enough and I don't have the guts to retaliate or tell somebody. As a result of this, I keep getting pushed further and further into depression. If that isn't bad enough, my dad's girlfriend is a bitch to me, she thinks of me as a guy who sits on their arse and would spend a week in the one spot and at the same time, not pay attention to anybody. I believe it's because we don't have anything in common but she thinks she is always right so I just shut up and put up with her bullcrap. I do feel as though I can't handle all this and my depression and anger levels have risen a lot. What can I do? I just want this over and done with.

I Feel The same way dude In terms of school people seem to like to bully me.

Anthony17 February 11th, 2018 01:54 AM

Re: Depressed and angry
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by DragonflySphere (Post 3629272)
Thanks for replying. I can't really tell the teachers going on what's happened the last few times. The first time somebody was calling me a weak twig so I tripped him and said "Who's the weak one now?" And sadly I got a detention for it even though I explained to the teachers what physical and verbal actions he had done before (He was a bully to me but now that he's realised how much taller I am than him he has half backed off). The second time I was putting up with somebody who was my height but was much stronger and he never liked me. He used to push me into walls, doors, windows and sometimes people as well as make fun of my looks and strength so one day after he pushed me, I turned around and punched him as hard as I could. I ended up getting suspended for a week even though he continued to bully other people (he still bullies me although it's more just verbal than physical). The third time was a bully who seemed to punch/kick me whenever I was in sight. After a couple months of putting up with it I told a teacher who told me to not make up lies about people and to carry on with my work. After telling her I wasn't lying and showing her a bruise I had gotten the previous day, she sent me to the office and got my parents contacted for fusing to listen to a teacher (it was also obvious the teachers talked about it because some of the teachers seemed to dislike me a couple days after). After that I never told a teacher what had happened as I know it'll have the same result because they think I'm a waste of their time even though I try my best and actually do well.

New friends probably aren't a chance because I go to a fairly small school and their is 4 friend groups. One I tried and everybody ignored the fact I was even there. The next don't even like me (don't know why, probably appearance), there is the one I am in now and then there is the last group who find me irritating. I might have to try some sports that go to more distant places because most of the local sports are people in my class. It's definitely worth a shot though.

Getting in touch with my dad's girlfriend may be a chance. I'll have to work out what we both like though. Maybe I could do that over the next few days.

Thanks for your response.

Quote:

Originally Posted by CjDj2001 (Post 3630074)
I Feel The same way dude In terms of school people seem to like to bully me.


I wouldn't let bullies get to you guys. Bullies are a sad metaphor, for people who have no option but to take our their anger on others. Sadly, some of them I must admit are a waste of space themselves. Don't let anyone tell you what to do, stand up for yourselves. @DragonflySphere I wouldn't care if I got a detention for standing up against a bully, you could always explain and anyone would care enough to not care about a detention. Plus, it would show that you aren't a person that could be messed with. I'm happy you stand up for yourself. Continue to do so.


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