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jesus4life August 3rd, 2017 12:14 PM

are all girls mean
 
i cut and self harm mostly but not always cause of girls cause i have no social skills so i dont know what to say so like do all guys get a kick out of bullying people who they dont understand and do all girls enjoy giving pain to guys groin when there upset cause i almost had to go to hospital cause of 4 girls 4 times they really didnt care and now im afraid of girls and im starting to be afraid of guys cause they bully me and cut myself and i tried to commit suicide is everyone mean and cruel or are there nice people to

Sere August 4th, 2017 12:34 AM

Re: are all girls mean
 
Ok I'd like to ask if you could get away from the people you're around
Not all people are horrible and as you'll probably see on here there are kind, nice accepting people and not just the ride scum of the earth.
People aren't all bad, while they can be horrible there are many people out there who are not.
And what do you mean by they sent you to the hospital..? Did they fight/attack you?
And I very much need to say about how you need to tell someone! I went through a time where I was bullied and hurt inside and I know it's hard to ask for help but people really will help you.
Get away from those people. Don't associate with them and find people who you can not be put down by.
And no all guys get a kick out of bullying, boy I don't. And what do you mean by giving pain to a guys groin?
I hope this helps and you could give me more insight
Remember I'm here anytime if you need any help

Hjhj

@jesus4life

dancedreamergirl November 6th, 2017 05:12 PM

Re: are all girls mean
 
Hmm...I'm sorry :( What you are going through sounds tough. I can definitely relate, although I know my situation isn't exactly the same as yours. I've cut and felt alone and been suicidal, too.

However, I notice your username is jesus4life, which intrigues me. I assume that means you are a Christian, and I am too, and Christians often get bullied. However, if you are Christian, you believe that all people are sinners in need of repentance until they come to Christ, right? All people are evil...until they encounter Jesus and get saved and washed clean. So to answer your question, are all girls mean? Yes, everyone is mean...and everyone is wicked...until they come to Christ. Then sometimes they are still mean, but they have the option not to be. See what I mean? I know it's hard, but we're in a world full of sinners, and the only people who are going to really love you are Christ and Christ's true disciples, which are very few.

I hope you'll realize that if you truly are a Christian, these people need you, and you have a purpose here on this earth. It may not become known to you until later in life, but that's ok. You DO have a purpose here. You are needed. People may not appreciate and respect you now, but you have what they need, and things don't have to stay the same way forever. You matter and you WILL make friends. Hang in there. And in the meantime, I'll be your friend! :)

Endeavour November 6th, 2017 05:50 PM

Re: are all girls mean
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by dancedreamergirl (Post 3587810)
Hmm...I'm sorry :( What you are going through sounds tough. I can definitely relate, although I know my situation isn't exactly the same as yours. I've cut and felt alone and been suicidal, too.

However, I notice your username is jesus4life, which intrigues me. I assume that means you are a Christian, and I am too, and Christians often get bullied. However, if you are Christian, you believe that all people are sinners in need of repentance until they come to Christ, right? All people are evil...until they encounter Jesus and get saved and washed clean. So to answer your question, are all girls mean? Yes, everyone is mean...and everyone is wicked...until they come to Christ. Then sometimes they are still mean, but they have the option not to be. See what I mean? I know it's hard, but we're in a world full of sinners, and the only people who are going to really love you are Christ and Christ's true disciples, which are very few.

I hope you'll realize that if you truly are a Christian, these people need you, and you have a purpose here on this earth. It may not become known to you until later in life, but that's ok. You DO have a purpose here. You are needed. People may not appreciate and respect you now, but you have what they need, and things don't have to stay the same way forever. You matter and you WILL make friends. Hang in there. And in the meantime, I'll be your friend! :)

Please don't bump old threads. :locked:


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