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Yugen June 19th, 2017 09:08 AM

Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
Sometimes I feel like I'm the only person ever to be crazy enough to self harm in ways other than cutting. I have cut in the past, but I've also broken bones, sprained things, etc. and my go to is usually hitting myself versus the traditional cutting or scratching.

devotionnel June 19th, 2017 03:33 PM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
It's not strange, people (including myself) have a tendency to do this - maybe it's a different release for some people, or just lack of anything to properly harm with.

BlackParadePixie June 19th, 2017 06:57 PM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
No, it's not weird at all. I have heard of people doing things like...slamming their hands shut in a door, or a drawer.

Dalcourt June 19th, 2017 08:44 PM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
It's jot as uncommon as you think. Even if there's mainly the opinion self harm = cutting a lot of people hurt each other in other ways.
I felt strange about hurting myself in different ways from cutting, too but a therapist told me that a great deal of people do it.
Public opinion and mainstream media just make it look like it's all just about cutting...reality looks different.

naenaendr July 5th, 2017 06:08 PM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
I've never thought of other methods other than cutting. What would you tell your parent when you have a broken bone??

Dalcourt July 5th, 2017 08:16 PM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by naenaendr (Post 3541334)
I've never thought of other methods other than cutting. What would you tell your parent when you have a broken bone??

What do you tell them when they see the cuts or blood somewhere?
I guess every self harmer is able to find directions the right excuses for their situation.

naenaendr July 6th, 2017 08:46 AM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
I've only cut once, and I just wore a long-sleeved shirt for a week until it wasn't visible.

Just JT July 7th, 2017 07:31 AM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
Self harm can be many things. Over eating, not eating. Drug or alcohol abuse. Pretty much anything that's bad for you that you intentionally do to harm yourself

Indexes July 24th, 2017 09:38 AM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
Yikes, yeah. I remember messing up in third grade once and starting to bang my head against a wall (thought it was normal at the time, somehow) - done the same several times this year, but not in front of people.

If I say something stupid in class or to someone else, I start violently scratching my knuckles and palms. That's something I can't help not doing in public, but at least it raises less questions than the former.

Amethyst Rose July 24th, 2017 10:10 AM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
No, there's nothing abnormal about that. What many people fail to realize is that all forms of self harm are worthy of an equal amount of attention as they are all unhealthy. It's unfortunate that cutting generally takes precedence over the others. To dispel the idea that "cutting = self harm" many are stuck on would be a feat.

Yugen July 26th, 2017 10:19 AM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by naenaendr (Post 3541334)
I've never thought of other methods other than cutting. What would you tell your parent when you have a broken bone??

That I need to go to the hospital and get it x-rayed like any other broken bone.
Accidents happen...

elmoc July 28th, 2017 10:08 PM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
"To dispel the idea that "cutting = self harm" many are stuck on would be a feat."

Amethyst,
I'm confused about what you are saying with this sentence. Do you mean that it would be better if all forms of self harm were identified equally?
TY

CrypticBread2 July 28th, 2017 10:58 PM

Re: Self harm that isn't cutting?
 
Ya, I thought about cutting, trying to get the effects that some people get out of cutting, but I knew I would feint if I saw my own blood (due to a psychological condition I have), so instead I resorted to hitting my knee and biting my knee whenever I was mad or upset. It was kinda better because besides the bruising that would sometimes happen, there was no permanent damage done.


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