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			<title>my psychiatrist told my mom...!</title>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 00:00:06 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[last week when i was meeting with psychiatrist, i showed her my cuts on my thighs. she asked if she could get a picture of my leg "to show people how bad it can get." i was sure,...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>last week when i was meeting with psychiatrist, i showed her my cuts on my thighs. she asked if she could get a picture of my leg &quot;to show people how bad it can get.&quot; i was sure, what harm can it do?<br />
so today i come home from school, and my mom is on her computer on the counter and randomly says, &quot;i met with Dr. L today.&quot;<br />
i was like, &quot;oh really? how'd it go?&quot; i was just like whatever cause they met because my mom wanted to talk about my meds.<br />
without looking away from her computer, she's like &quot;she told me you're still cutting yourself, and she showed me a picture.&quot;<br />
i was just like... huh? i had no idea my psychiatrist would show my mom. i should have thought of that, but whatever.<br />
i said, &quot;Ok?&quot;<br />
my mom, without looking away from ordering pizza on the computer for my brother and his friends, said, &quot;I really wish you wouldn't do that.&quot;<br />
<br />
very convincing mom. :eyebrow:<br />
i don't know whether to be mad that my psychiatrist did that to me, or that my mom doesn't seem to give two shits. i mean, it's easier than her hounding me about it, i definitely don't prefer that. but i mean, come ON! look away from the fucking computer! :mad:<br />
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:help:</div>

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			<dc:creator>Painted_Indian_Horse</dc:creator>
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			<title>Str8 guys Question</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 23:44:10 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Do any of you str8 guys watch gay porn once in a while? I am completely str8 but when it comes to porn for some reason gay porn is more appealing.. Also do any of you watch male...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Do any of you str8 guys watch gay porn once in a while? I am completely str8 but when it comes to porn for some reason gay porn is more appealing.. Also do any of you watch male masturbation videos?.. <br />
Plese be honest i just want to know if its normal.. <br />
:)</div>

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			<title>Curious</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 23:36:39 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Im just curious and want to ask a guy about masturbation and puberty. Im 14 and im looking for a guy between 12 and 16. You can ask or tell me anything and I will be 100% honest....</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Im just curious and want to ask a guy about masturbation and puberty. Im 14 and im looking for a guy between 12 and 16. You can ask or tell me anything and I will be 100% honest. So if you wanna talk then send me a MSG! Thanx! :D</div>

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			<dc:creator>adakr</dc:creator>
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			<title>Why do you have to have 100 posts before sending a private msg.</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 23:24:49 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>ugh i really wanna send one but i cant.</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>ugh i really wanna send one but i cant.</div>

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			<dc:creator>Jonnyo</dc:creator>
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			<title>Set Up</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 23:24:39 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[He set her up, 
For an awful letdown, 
'Cause that's what he does each time around. 
 
Every girl thinks, "This time will be different," 
And thinks his past is his past, 
They...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>He set her up,<br />
For an awful letdown,<br />
'Cause that's what he does each time around.<br />
<br />
Every girl thinks, &quot;This time will be different,&quot;<br />
And thinks his past is his past,<br />
They think their relationship will last.<br />
<br />
How wrong they are,<br />
But they're under his spell,<br />
I'm the only one who sees him as a demon from hell.<br />
<br />
But now he has her,<br />
My very best friend,<br />
Who I'd never abandon, not till the end.<br />
<br />
Now I get to watch her get hurt,<br />
And get played like a game boy,<br />
Because that's all this is to him, a game, and she's the shiny new toy. <br />
<br />
<br />
<br />
I wrote this because my friend has gotten herself into a lose-lose situation with a boy and I hate knowing what's going to happen. I'm tied between telling her and keeping it to myself.</div>

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			<dc:creator>brennaluvv</dc:creator>
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			<title>If you are feeling depressed here is some great advice.</title>
			<link>http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=82557&amp;goto=newpost</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 22:53:01 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Your not a lone you have your VT mates to help you out on your lives journey. Struggles are needed in life, with out them we would be weak. with out obstacles we would be cripple....</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Your not a lone you have your VT mates to help you out on your lives journey. Struggles are needed in life, with out them we would be weak. with out obstacles we would be cripple. life is one big lesson and all you can do is learn from it. its up to you to make you feel better about yourself and your situation. surround yourself with positive people, forget about all the negative people, you don&#8217;t deserve that. You are worth more than you know.<br />
<br />
Remember there&#8217;s always a light at the end of that tunnel don't lose faith or hope. you are apart of this world and we are all connected in some way. you belong here just as much as anyone else. <br />
<br />
Also try using these exercises, they really do help. I think everyone should do them. It will make anyone feel better about them self&#8217;s and others. take time to breath and relax for at least 5 min a day. Find a peaceful place outside and sit on the grass, take a deep breath and close your eyes. listen to nature, feel the wind blowing, the sun warming you, and feel the grass. get in touch with the pure potential of nature. take time to live and &quot;just be&quot;. accept the unbounded creativity and pure potential of the universe. <br />
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Practice non-judgment, what i mean is don&#8217;t judge things as if they were good, bad, wrong, correct, awesome. count how many times a day you judge something, and realize how much pressure that puts on your mind body and heart. the truth is judging thins is a complete waist of time. and time is the most precious commodity we have on this planet. instead just learn the lesson from life&#8217;s situations. Accept people, situations, circumstances, and events for what they are even yourself. and know that thats how it should be. Dont fight having no control, insted let it go, you will feel so much better, because taking responsibility for anything will lead to blaming yourself, even when its not your fault. Every problem is an opportunity in disguise, and know that you can take that moment and transform it into a greater benefit for yourself. <br />
<br />
Detach your self from others around you, and allow them to be as they are. trying to force solutions to ones problems often leads to new problems. detaching your self is very important. once you detach yourself you are more willing to accept uncertainty. you take in all the infanent possibilities and appreciate the excitement that occurs when you are open to an infinity of choices. you will then experience all the fun, adventure, magic, and mystery of life. <br />
<br />
Thinking negative thoughts is blurring your perspective on life. all those thoughts are trash, useless garbage filling your mind so that you cant think in the peasant. let go of the past there is nothing you can do to change it. when your mind fills up you miss out on everything else life has to offer. let go of the negative emotions you feel about your family, peers and your life. its not your responsibility. you need to care for yourself. because in the end that&#8217;s all that matters. the universe will provide for you just give it a chance. You are just as important as anyone else on this earth, and you have been given this amazing gift of life. it would be foolish to throw it away.<br />
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I hope this helped. your not alone and nothing is your fault. thats how the universe should be. nothing ever ends its just transformed, maybe into something more beautiful, even the worst things in the universe are miracles. once you see the big picture you then realize your purpose in life.:)<br />
<br />
P.s. if your thinking about suicide you should talk to some one, you may need professional help. remember making something permanent out of something temporary is never the answer, no matter how bad you feel. let me know how you feel about what was said or if it didn't make any sense ill try and explain the best i can. I'm here to help and talk to anyone that needs help.</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=13">Depression, Loss, and Grief</category>
			<dc:creator>Lostboy</dc:creator>
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			<title>Whats a decent girth size?</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 22:52:12 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm 15, bout 5.8 inches long and about 4.5 inches girth. Idk about girth, I never measured it before and I was just curious.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I'm 15, bout 5.8 inches long and about 4.5 inches girth. Idk about girth, I never measured it before and I was just curious.</div>

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			<dc:creator>Daniel_</dc:creator>
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			<title>Lost</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 22:38:47 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Well... In the last few weeks alone I've: 
* Gotten drunk and cheated 
* Cutting has gotten worse 
* Think I might be depressed 
 
 
I don't want my mum to know any of this. I've...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Well... In the last few weeks alone I've:<ul><li>Gotten drunk and cheated</li>
<li>Cutting has gotten worse</li>
<li>Think I might be depressed</li>
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I don't want my mum to know any of this. I've told my boyfriend it all, and a few friends. But I feel so lost. The other night I looked up common symptoms of depression and took an online test, just to see if its possible and if I should go to the doctor. The results weren't all that comforting and my boyfriend and friends are telling me to go to the doctor. But I don't want to. I'm not sure why though. I guess I feel that they'll think I'm exaggerating or something, or that they won't believe me. And if I'm not depressed then I'll be embarrassed. But I know something is wrong. I'm just not feeling right. I feel so lost and scared. I kind of feel alone, despite my support.</div>

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			<dc:creator>PoisonedRazorBlades</dc:creator>
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			<title>A little problem...</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 22:31:33 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Ok I have a girlfriend already and weve been casual dating for about a month and a half. A few weeks ago a girl from my high school drum line(the one im in) started throwing...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Ok I have a girlfriend already and weve been casual dating for about a month and a half. A few weeks ago a girl from my high school drum line(the one im in) started throwing herself at me. Literally, she threw my back out trying to keep her from falling and hurting herself. She just wont stop. How should I handle getting her off me?</div>

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			<dc:creator>thebandgeek</dc:creator>
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			<title>Should people sentenced to death be executed shortly after being sentenced?</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 21:53:09 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Why or Why Not? 
Would that deter crime if people had no chances for appeals? 
Should that only be done in cases where guilt is completely proven and cannot be challenged or...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Why or Why Not?<br />
Would that deter crime if people had no chances for appeals?<br />
Should that only be done in cases where guilt is completely proven and cannot be challenged or denied?</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=29">Ramblings of the Wise</category>
			<dc:creator>EASJR1991</dc:creator>
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			<title>Under certain circumstances should criminals not receive trials?</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 21:51:28 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>If DNA or other forensics is found and cannot be questioned should a person be sentenced without a trial. Why or why not?</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>If DNA or other forensics is found and cannot be questioned should a person be sentenced without a trial. Why or why not?</div>

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			<dc:creator>EASJR1991</dc:creator>
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			<title>Finding love.</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 21:48:16 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Everytime I loike someone they dont like me or it doesnt go any further than friendship. I am bi so it doesnt matter if i am with a girl or a boy. 
 
 
I really need to find...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Everytime I loike someone they dont like me or it doesnt go any further than friendship. I am bi so it doesnt matter if i am with a girl or a boy.<br />
<br />
<br />
I really need to find someone that loves me :( It doesnt really necessarily have to be love in a bf/gf way. I need friendship from others because over here I am pretty much hated amongst the guys or my age here. <br />
<br />
When i crush on someone it doesnt end in a good way or it doesnt go anywhere at all. <br />
<br />
-What should i do ? <br />
-Have you ever ended up in such situations, i.e lonely ?<br />
-If yes, how did you cope ?<br />
<br />
Thanks guys :(</div>

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			<dc:creator>Psychic_Touch</dc:creator>
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			<title>I cant do it anymore.</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 21:46:41 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>I cant do this anymore. I have tried to stop self harming. First i manged 2 months. Now i am an just over 3 weeks. Instead of self harming i just want to die. I have felt this...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I cant do this anymore. I have tried to stop self harming. First i manged 2 months. Now i am an just over 3 weeks. Instead of self harming i just want to die. I have felt this before but without cutting i feel it so much worse and some day i just know i will do it. Im scared. But then i want it to happen. I cant do this anymore. Maybe if i carried on self harming i wouldnt feel like this. I know i shouldnt but oh i want to so much. I want to go to deep I want something bad to happen. Im a coward. I cant deal with life anymore. I dont know what to do or even why i am writing this. Im so sorry.</div>

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			<dc:creator>smile</dc:creator>
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			<title>Cutting Is More Than A Cut.</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 21:46:01 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>I have been self injuring ever since my freshman or sophomore year in high school? Which is about four or five years ago. 
And at first, I basically did it, just for the hell of...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I have been self injuring ever since my freshman or sophomore year in high school? Which is about four or five years ago.<br />
And at first, I basically did it, just for the hell of it, I wasnt really depressed, or upset, I just wanted to do it, and see what it was like.<br />
Well, afterwards, I ended up having to deal with a lot of stuff my four years of high school, and I mean a lot.<br />
Things no one should ever really have to deal with, but unfortunately it doesnt work like that.<br />
So all of high school I cut, and I had friends that were worried about me, and a teacher that knew I did it, and cared deeply for me, along with an amazing guidance counselor.<br />
Well, ive been out of high school for over a year, and in that time period I met an amazing guy, who makes all my worries disappear!<br />
Cutting isnt even something I think about really, but I havent completely stopped, and the sad part is I know I should, but I have no desire at all to do so.<br />
I love scars, and the blood, and I just love the marks on my body, they make me feel so much better, and I just cant help but feeling free.<br />
<br />
I just dont really know what to do.</div>

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			<dc:creator>galigator8509</dc:creator>
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			<title>Should people who commit minor sex crimes be locked up for life?</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 21:24:22 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Should this happen in order to prevent them from commiting worse sex crimes? Or should we simply try to rehabilitate them or both? 
 
Why or Why Not? 
...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Should this happen in order to prevent them from commiting worse sex crimes? Or should we simply try to rehabilitate them or both?<br />
<br />
Why or Why Not?<br />
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<a href="http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/01/13/mitchell.sex.crime/index.html" target="_blank">http://www.cnn.com/2009/CRIME/01/13/...ime/index.html</a><br />
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				Here is the article that prompted my question.<br />
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NEW YORK (CNN) -- Early last month, beautiful 25-year-old Laura Garza went missing. Her family holds out hope she is still alive. <br />
An aspiring dancer from Texas, Garza moved to New York City to pursue her career. On December 2nd, she went to the posh Manhattan nightclub Marquee to blow off some steam with her friend. <br />
Security video shows Garza leaving the club with convicted sex offender Michael Mele, according to the New York Police Department. NYPD officials confirmed that Mele then drove Garza about an hour away toward his apartment. Garza was reported missing the next day.<br />
New York state police searched Mele's apartment and court documents indicate officers observed apparent bite marks on Mele's hand and scratches on his back and shoulder. <br />
According to court records and state police, large pieces of carpet were missing from his apartment and days later, carpet pieces that seemed to match Mele's were found on the side of a nearby road.<br />
Search parties have been combing roads, woods, and swampland, and police divers searched for clues in a nearby lake, but the search has gone cold in recent weeks. Mele is in jail for violating probation and is a suspect, but he has not been charged in Garza's disappearance, according to state police.<br />
Laura Garza is still missing more than a month later. Her family has joined search efforts in New York and prays they will find her alive, but police are treating the case as a homicide.<br />
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The worst part about this tragic story? It may have been preventable. Laura Garza had no idea she was leaving that club with a sex offender. After all, most of them look pretty normal. Few fit the Hollywood stereotype of the creepy guy wearing a trench coat and driving a white van.<br />
Laura Garza may have been unaware who she was with that night, but the legal system certainly knew him. <br />
Michael Mele previously pleaded guilty to four counts of sexual assault, including one count of masturbating in front of two women. And he was violating probation. And he had an outstanding warrant for allegedly exposing himself to a woman in a mall parking lot. <br />
Mele hasn't been convicted of anything in this case or charged in Garza's disappearance, but even if he is innocent, the larger question of how the criminal justice system deals with sex offenders remains a vital issue.<br />
In a sane world, Mele is not a free man on that night, able to allegedly target Laura Garza.<br />
But we don't live in a sane world. We live in a world where sexual assault is business as usual. Where's the outrage? <br />
The Garza case is a microcosm of a societal problem. As a nation, we must realize there is no such thing as a &quot;minor&quot; sexual offense -- because sex offenders often start small and graduate to more serious crimes.<br />
According to a 2003 Department of Justice study, 78 percent of imprisoned sex offenders had prior arrests and 28 percent had prior arrests for sex crimes. <br />
According to the same study, one quarter of men serving time for rape and 19 percent of those serving time for sexual assault had been on probation or parole at the time of the offense that landed them in prison. <br />
The formula is simple. Sex offenders start off by nabbing the easy prey -- committing the so-called &quot;minor&quot; sexual offenses like flashing random women, or the crimes Michael Mele committed. <br />
Then, after getting away with it or receiving a slap on the wrist, they become hungrier and develop into full-fledged predators. And it's only when they sink their teeth into their prey that the legal system finally brings down the hammer. But it's too late.<br />
To stop this progression, we must start treating all sexual offenses as major crimes. In the same Justice Department study, on average, the sex offenders served less than half of their sentences. So basically that means Paris Hilton served more of her sentence than the average person convicted of a sex crime does. I'm glad our justice system has its priorities straight.<br />
The simple answer is to take all sex offenders off the streets, from the moment they commit the first &quot;minor&quot; offense. I'm not just talking about putting them behind bars. We need to rehabilitate these predators at the earliest stage possible, before their behavior worsens.<br />
And if the prisons are too crowded to hold them, how about releasing some of the nonviolent drug offenders to make some room? They can't be worse than sex offenders on the prowl who, compared with non-sex offenders released from prison, are four times more likely to be rearrested for a sex crime, according to a government study.<br />
This problem is out in the open. I see it. My viewers see it. But how many Laura Garzas will it take to before politicians and judges see it and are willing to do something about it?
			
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				Simple Answer to Sex Offenders: First offense gets you life.<br />
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By Michael Tefft • on January 14, 2009<br />
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CNN commentator Jane Velez-Mitchell recently wrote a commentary titled: “Get tougher on sex offenders.” In the commentary Mitchell tells the story of an aspiring dancer from Texas who moved to New York City to pursue her career. The dancer, Laura Garza, soon went missing after last having been seen leaving a club with a convicted sex offender (who was on parole).<br />
New York state police searched the home of the convicted sex offender Michael Mele and found incriminating evidence but could not tie him directly to the disappearance of the dancer. He is currently in jail for violating probation and is a suspect in the disappearance. He had previously pleaded guilty to four counts of sexual assault, including one count of masturbating in front of two women and one of exposing himself to a woman in a mall parking lot.<br />
The argument that Mitchell puts forward in her commentary is that the Mele should not have been free on the night of the disappearance. To quote her:<br />
In a sane world, Mele is not a free man on that night, able to allegedly target Laura Garza. But we don’t live in a sane world. We live in a world where sexual assault is business as usual. Where’s the outrage?<br />
According to Mitchell there is no such thing as a “minor” sexual offense, because sex offenders often start small and graduate to more serious crimes. Her theory is similar to the one promoted about drug users starting out with marijuana and going on to heroin and other hard drugs. According to Mitchell, after they get away with the first minor crime with only a slap on the wrist, they become hungrier and develop into full-fledged predators. Mitchell’s answer is to start treating all sexual offenses as major crimes. The simple answer is to take all sex offenders off the streets, from the moment they commit the first ”minor” offense.<br />
So I guess if you are convicted of masturbating in public it should be treated the same as rape. The legal system is supposed to lock you up and throw away the key because everybody knows that it is just a matter of time before you go on to rape, kidnapping and murder. Sounds a little like a scene out of the movie “Minority Report” where people are arrested for crimes they haven’t committed yet.<br />
What about somebody convicted of shoplifting? Maybe they should get the same sentence as an armed robber. After all, it is only a matter of time before it progresses from shoplifting to armed robbery. Let’s just nip it in the bud right now. The same goes for someone convicted of domestic violence. Better to sentence them to death now than wait for them to commit murder later on.<br />
Am I exaggerating a little bit here? I don’t think so. Mitchell advocates releasing nonviolent drug offenders if needed to make room for more sex offenders and the longer sentences they will be facing. But isn’t it possible that those released nonviolent drug offenders will someday become violent drug offenders. According to Mitchell it is only a matter of time.<br />
When you start to impose a different legal standard on one group of criminals you are starting down a long slippery slope. No first time offenders, no minor offenses, no misdemeanors, every crime is a felony and comes with a big sentence. Every person convicted of a minor crime treated as though it is only a matter of time until that person commits a more serious crime. You better have some rock hard statistics to support such a theory before you start trying to change sentencing guidelines for a particular type of crime.<br />
Perhaps Mitchell would prefer a judicial system where adulterers are stoned to death and thieves hands are cut off, such as in several Islamic countries. While our judicial system is not perfect and there is much room for improvement, I don’t think the ideas put forth in her commentary are worthy of serious consideration. The statistics she quotes do not support such a drastic solution as the one she proposes.
			
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			<dc:creator>EASJR1991</dc:creator>
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			<title>WTF; I have finished everything in puberty except for my genetilals</title>
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			<description><![CDATA[I just don't know what the hell is happening with my body. I have been freaking out for the past two years over this and as a result I am a nervous wreck. 
 
I am 16 (nearly 17)...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I just don't know what the hell is happening with my body. I have been freaking out for the past two years over this and as a result I am a nervous wreck.<br />
<br />
I am 16 (nearly 17) and 6&quot;6' in height. I have arm-pit hair, I have lots of leg-hair and I even have quite a lot of facial hair.<br />
<br />
BUT my penis, balls and scrotum is growing at a very slow rate. Half of my scrotum has those prickly spots where my the black pubes come out of, although the black pubes are thin. The other half is bare (the bottom of the scrotum) and nothing seems to be happening. My balls are very small. They are a bit smaller than grapes:(. My penis size is a bit better as it is around 5.5 inches and the girth is 5.3 inches. <br />
<br />
Please tell me I am going to grow normally and it will be all be over soon:(:(.</div>

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			<dc:creator>ineedhelpx10</dc:creator>
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			<title>a lil help here</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 20:06:10 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Ok i am 15 i am 5'3 and my voice is still pretty high and i wouldnt consider myself handsome/cute 
I was jw would any of you girls like a guy like me???]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Ok i am 15 i am 5'3 and my voice is still pretty high and i wouldnt consider myself handsome/cute<br />
I was jw would any of you girls like a guy like me???</div>

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			<dc:creator>thenewdude</dc:creator>
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			<title>Good, free Proxies</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 20:03:49 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I need to find a new proxy. The one I used to use doesn't work anymore, it keeps showing a 500 Internal Server error. other proxies work fine until I try to access a thread. I get...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I need to find a new proxy. The one I used to use doesn't work anymore, it keeps showing a 500 Internal Server error. other proxies work fine until I try to access a thread. I get taken to a completely different one. example, I tried to get to True or False. I was taken to a thread called &quot;:/&quot;. I clicked on a thread in the VT Arcade and it took me to a thread called &quot;Motherboard&quot;<br />
<br />
I need to find one that:<br />
<br />
1. Lets me log in, because some proxies you have to freaking PAY to login in (and post)<br />
2. the tab title is what it should be, like Virtual Teen Forums or User Control Panel, not the name of the proxy<br />
3. No pop up ads<br />
4. fast<br />
5. and most importantly, it's FREE<br />
<br />
<br />
Not only am I frustrated that the proxy I've been using a long time has suddenly stopped working, but I am still mad that VT has been blocked. If it weren't blocked, I wouldn't have to use a stupid proxy</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=39"><![CDATA[Tech Junky's Paradise]]></category>
			<dc:creator>Jess</dc:creator>
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			<title>Panties</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 19:28:03 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>hey, i was just wondering what kind of underwear u wear. i prefer girl boxers the are just too small for me so they are tight as i love vagina wedges. anyway reply ;)</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>hey, i was just wondering what kind of underwear u wear. i prefer girl boxers the are just too small for me so they are tight as i love vagina wedges. anyway reply ;)</div>

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			<dc:creator>number1</dc:creator>
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			<title>Holy fuck.....</title>
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			<description>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1QP-SIW6iKY 
 
 
That crowd has to be AT LEAST 900,000 people....</description>
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<br />
<br />
That crowd has to be AT LEAST 900,000 people....</div>

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			<dc:creator>Husker</dc:creator>
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			<title>Always Just Friends</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 16:39:16 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I have a problem when it comes to asking girls out. The problem isn't asking them out, it's that when ever I do they always say they just want to be friends. I get the same...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I have a problem when it comes to asking girls out. The problem isn't asking them out, it's that when ever I do they always say they just want to be friends. I get the same reaction every time. They say they're sorry and that they just want to be friends. Then they tell me that I have a great personality and that I will find someone else. But I can't find anyone else. I don't have anyone else that I'm interested in.</div>

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			<dc:creator>Jgalt</dc:creator>
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			<title>The KiNG needs your opinion...</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 15:31:31 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I am a sophomore, but I really like this 8th grader... we each think the other is perfect. I'm usually like a pick up artist, but I really Like this one girl. I don't wanna made...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I am a sophomore, but I really like this 8th grader... we each think the other is perfect. I'm usually like a pick up artist, but I really Like this one girl. I don't wanna made fun of because it will hurt my rep. Should I as her out?</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=52">Relationships and Dating</category>
			<dc:creator>THE KiNG</dc:creator>
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			<title>Expose yourself!</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 15:15:20 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Basically, all you do is post a picture of yourself (Either in a link or attached), and the user below you will say a comment about you, and post their picture. 
 
Pretty simple!...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Basically, all you do is post a picture of yourself (Either in a link or attached), and the user below you will say a comment about you, and post their picture.<br />
<br />
Pretty simple!<br />
Here's one of me, although my school name has been edited out.<br />
<img src="http://img830.imageshack.us/img830/7677/daveeee.png" border="0" alt="" class="tcattdimgresizer" onload="NcodeImageResizer.createOn(this);" /></div>

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			<dc:creator>OMGitsDAVE</dc:creator>
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			<title>Hi</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 15:12:43 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[My name is Ian and I am 13 years old.  I will be 14 in December.  I'm going into 9th grade starting on Tuesday and I'm really nervous about it.  I love baseball, especially...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>My name is Ian and I am 13 years old.  I will be 14 in December.  I'm going into 9th grade starting on Tuesday and I'm really nervous about it.  I love baseball, especially playing, more than anything thing else in this world.</div>

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			<dc:creator>Ian Creamore</dc:creator>
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			<title>HeyHey!</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 14:23:15 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Hey there, 
Im Dave, im 16 and from hartlepool in the north-east of England. Im bi-sexual but not that many know about it.  Im here to meet new people, so feel free to leave a...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Hey there,<br />
Im Dave, im 16 and from hartlepool in the north-east of England. Im bi-sexual but not that many know about it.  Im here to meet new people, so feel free to leave a comment on my wall.<br />
<br />
Thankyouu<br />
Dave</div>

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			<dc:creator>OMGitsDAVE</dc:creator>
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			<title>Hey Everyone!</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 13:58:03 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>Hey everyone, im new here, but that was probably obvious since im posting in this section. 
 
I found this site, and was pretty excited, I really want to be able to interact with...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Hey everyone, im new here, but that was probably obvious since im posting in this section.<br />
<br />
I found this site, and was pretty excited, I really want to be able to interact with people who are going through some of the same things as me.<br />
<br />
I have had a pretty rough, and difficult past, but that was then, and this was now, and things have gotten better.<br />
<br />
I have an amazing boyfriend, and I couldnt be any happier, he is my other half, and he completes me. I love him more than anything.<br />
<br />
I think I have a really bad case of OCD, and thats mainly why I got on this site, to talk about it, and see what others are going through, and think.<br />
<br />
I love to horseback ride, cheerlead, and do horse related events.<br />
<br />
Well, thats mainly, or vaguely some things about me!</div>

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			<dc:creator>galigator8509</dc:creator>
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			<title>The army</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 11:49:11 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[So i'm indecisive on my career path i want to join the army as a soldier but i'll need a university degree first so i'm planning on doing a medical degree but if i join as a...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>So i'm indecisive on my career path i want to join the army as a soldier but i'll need a university degree first so i'm planning on doing a medical degree but if i join as a certified doctor will i be made a medic? because i wouldn't want that. my cousin has set me a training regime for after my leg heals so i'll be training like mad. also for canada and america do you need to be drugs tested before joining? i'm planning no applying for citizenship in 1 of those countries. also how does your medical record need to be?</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=204">Education and Careers</category>
			<dc:creator>Archangel_Liriel</dc:creator>
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			<title>Girls I have a question and YES I am a guy</title>
			<link>http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=82523&amp;goto=newpost</link>
			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 10:08:56 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[I'm just wondering because there is this girl at my school who likes me and she's in 6th grade while I'm in the 7th which isn't really normal in my school 
anyway 
I found this...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>I'm just wondering because there is this girl at my school who likes me and she's in 6th grade while I'm in the 7th which isn't really normal in my school<br />
anyway<br />
I found this out because we just kinda talked in club then she gave me her number and we started texting. Then one day she just told me she likes me<br />
<br />
Well I'm wondering what would make her like me<br />
as in there are other people that girls like more and I am one of those people that just exist<br />
<br />
let me tell you about my self<br />
<br />
My height is: 5'8<br />
My weight is: 140lbs<br />
<br />
I don't really see my self as handsome/cute<br />
I am generally a shy person <br />
and I don't do anything perverted<br />
I'm not really that funny<br />
but I think I'm a good listener<br />
I wouldn't make any bad comments unless what I'm commenting about REALLY sucks<br />
I'm friendly when I talk to people and a little sarcrastic<br />
and I would NEVER hurt anyone on purpose</div>

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			<dc:creator>Frosty015</dc:creator>
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			<title>Your LGBT Idol!</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 08:33:44 GMT</pubDate>
			<description><![CDATA[Who's your LGBT Idol? 
 
Me= John Barrowman 
Image: http://www.tvseriesgalore.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/john-barrowman.jpg  
Hot No?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Who's your LGBT Idol?<br />
<br />
Me= John Barrowman<br />
<img src="http://www.tvseriesgalore.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/john-barrowman.jpg" border="0" alt="" class="tcattdimgresizer" onload="NcodeImageResizer.createOn(this);" /><br />
Hot No?</div>

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			<category domain="http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=35">Teen Sexuality</category>
			<dc:creator>dooleynz</dc:creator>
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			<title>Embarassing...</title>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 02 Sep 2010 06:53:41 GMT</pubDate>
			<description>okay I know this sounds really stupid but ive heard lots of people masturbate with an electric toothbrush, and i was just wondering how?? obviously you would use a toothbrush you...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>okay I know this sounds really stupid but ive heard lots of people masturbate with an electric toothbrush, and i was just wondering how?? obviously you would use a toothbrush you dont use any more but do you like go right in or what? sorry too much information i know...</div>

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			<dc:creator>introuble</dc:creator>
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