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New boy...

Posted December 4th, 2018 at 10:37 AM by Caitigrrl

So some of you know the nature of the relationship with the boy I get with a lot
Itís... like best friends with benefits, weíre very close, but I know because of how close things are we wonít ever really be a proper couple, marry, kids... but weíre committed to each other in that we donít see others etc

But Iíve met someone
I know itís gonna hurt him knowing Iíll stop having sex with him as I would if I start going out with this boy I have been seeing a lot. Which is impressive in itself because being home schooled I donít meet a lot of new people

Any thoughts on how to address it? Soften the blow?
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    Just be honest about it. There is not soft way of telling this. No way to sugar coat it. I just hope he really feels the same way and it is not in fact secretly in love with you. And probably one last "benefit" wouldn't hurt Good luck!
    Posted December 4th, 2018 at 05:53 PM by ShyBGGirl ShyBGGirl is offline
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    Caitigrrl's Forum Picture
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    Originally Posted by ShyBGGirl View Comment
    Just be honest about it. There is not soft way of telling this. No way to sugar coat it. I just hope he really feels the same way and it is not in fact secretly in love with you. And probably one last "benefit" wouldn't hurt Good luck!
    lol yeah, probably the way to do it - and thanks
    Posted December 4th, 2018 at 06:27 PM by Caitigrrl Caitigrrl is offline
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    You can just slowly back away and then be clear what you want. It will hurt him at first but be better in the long run overall.
    Cute bikini btw
    Posted December 5th, 2018 at 02:05 AM by sofie04 sofie04 is offline
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    You can just slowly back away and then be clear what you want. It will hurt him at first but be better in the long run overall.
    Cute bikini btw
    Yeah I think youíre right

    Thanks itís a cute one but still sexy, gotta be careful swimming in it, the way it sits at the front, the waistband kinda hangs open a bit and can catch the water when I dive in or a big wave hits, pulls it down a bit, sand can get in too

    I do love how guys try not to be obvious that they are looking down into it lol
    https://i.imgur.com/XuzyARb.jpg
    Posted December 5th, 2018 at 03:53 AM by Caitigrrl Caitigrrl is offline
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    For me and my cousin it went in a kind of natural way, we talked about long time relationships and both realized it, being family, would never work for us in the long run.
    It opened our minds and gave space for other lovers, and our relationship developed into a special kind of best soulmates and friends friendship, but still with benefits sometimes.
    Posted December 5th, 2018 at 07:48 AM by Brigje Brigje is offline
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    as a guy, the best thing you can do is be open and honest, there is no easy way but it's easier to put it all out in the open sooner rather than later
    Posted December 5th, 2018 at 04:19 PM by Dmaxd123 Dmaxd123 is offline
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    As others said, if you're close, tell him in private, and hopefully he will understand. Don't leave it. I hope it works out
    Posted December 5th, 2018 at 06:34 PM by Maxbreak Maxbreak is offline
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    Originally Posted by Caitigrrl View Comment
    Yeah I think youíre right

    Thanks itís a cute one but still sexy, gotta be careful swimming in it, the way it sits at the front, the waistband kinda hangs open a bit and can catch the water when I dive in or a big wave hits, pulls it down a bit, sand can get in too

    I do love how guys try not to be obvious that they are looking down into it lol
    https://i.imgur.com/XuzyARb.jpg
    Oh I see what you mean. Well if you like that there is nothing wrong with it Lol but that's why I like tie side sometimes it is more adjustable.
    https://imgur.com/hWhBqAg
    https://imgur.com/Ue0ZB5H
    Posted December 5th, 2018 at 09:02 PM by sofie04 sofie04 is offline
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    So, who is this new boy, Caiti? Is it a local boy?
    Posted December 7th, 2018 at 09:06 PM by Jordan99 Jordan99 is offline
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    So, who is this new boy, Caiti? Is it a local boy?
    He lives here but is American, only been here like two years
    So cute
    Posted December 8th, 2018 at 04:28 PM by Caitigrrl Caitigrrl is offline
 

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