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mike.virtualteen
March 27th, 2011, 05:55 AM
So I was spending the night at my uncles house, he is 33. and i am 16 and we were in our underwear and I saw him without a shirt and I said "woah uncle Tommy your chest is really hairy" and then he said look what else is hairy and he just briefly pulled down his boxers and pulled them back up and he told me "i showed you mine, now show me yours man". I said to him "alright, come over here and see". I didn't pull down my underwear, he came over and just opened my waistband and looked in. I mean, it's normal right? Were both guys right? I did not feel uncomfortable. Do you think this was inappropriate behavior?

RAWWR
March 27th, 2011, 06:52 AM
It's still kinda wrong if he started it y'know, like, if you were curious then I suppose it's ok, a teenage boy is gonna feel curious about other people compared to him, but a grown man shouldn't be exposing himself to you like that.

Powerline
March 27th, 2011, 07:56 AM
^I agree with the poster above me if you had asked him what his looked like then it wouldnt be so bad since you are young and curious but seeing as how he is over 30 and shows you his and then asks to show yours is inappropriate.

TomBaseball
March 27th, 2011, 09:54 AM
A little bit weird...but if u were comfortable not too bad.

Dalman
March 27th, 2011, 10:21 AM
It is alittle weird, but too bad. It would only be bad if it is the beginning of more stuff like that.

MacMilker
March 27th, 2011, 10:30 AM
It is alittle weird, but too bad. It would only be bad if it is the beginning of more stuff like that.

agreed.

Kaius
March 27th, 2011, 10:44 AM
Theres nothing normal about that at all, your uncle shouldn't be doing that for quite a few reasons whether you're comfortable with it or not.

bluedude97
March 27th, 2011, 01:12 PM
i guess its normal .

tomdiehl
March 27th, 2011, 04:41 PM
thats cool i wish i was that close with my family

chris4827
March 27th, 2011, 04:52 PM
i dont think its good that a grown man, whos ur uncle, is showing himself to you like that. familly, being a guy, and even simply curiosity only go so far. :/

Dylman215
March 27th, 2011, 05:20 PM
Thats kinda wierd but i dont think it is that wrong

Orpheus
March 27th, 2011, 05:28 PM
It'd be perfectly natural for you and your uncle to see each other naked and check each other out if you were at the gym in the shower or sauna or something like that. but the way he did it was not natural at all. I'd ignore anything like that if it happened again. And if he tried to show you his boner or tries to get you to show yours you should tell your dad.

the wasabi
March 27th, 2011, 05:29 PM
it's not bad if you're comfortable with it......it is a little weird that he showed you his first then asked to see yours....

mr.sexy_bomb
March 27th, 2011, 07:30 PM
well if you were ok with it then i dont see anything super bad

Wicked_Syn
March 27th, 2011, 07:57 PM
I personally think it was wrong of him to do that. Like for real.....he's 33. No. Not cool.

sieg
March 27th, 2011, 08:39 PM
hes a bit old for that... you shouldnt let this happen again

moondream
March 27th, 2011, 09:26 PM
its one thing if he saw its another if he tuched u pluse if u were okay with it or not

Limelight788
March 27th, 2011, 09:43 PM
mike.virtualteen, that's not appropriate behavior or a mature relationship* like you said you wanted to have as you said in the previous thread. What your uncle just did is pretty much illegal and can be classified as sexual abuse, regardless of whenever or not you were consensual about it. A mature relationship does not include showing penis off to each other.

*Mature relationship being treating your uncle or other relatives as part of your family (Which they are), but completely avoiding any sexual activities between the two of you.

smitty35
March 27th, 2011, 10:21 PM
No, most guys don't do this. It is weird and yucky. It's not your fault, he made you do it. Since he is over 18 and you are under 18.....I don't know...but I can say it isn't cool.

jrl1996
March 27th, 2011, 11:23 PM
uhmmm it is wierd really

XFlyboyX
March 28th, 2011, 02:29 AM
well if ur cool with ur uncle i guess is cool u guys just compared n u didnt feel uncomfortable

Chris95
March 28th, 2011, 03:42 AM
No. Nooooo no no no. It's baffling me how many people on here think that's okay. It most certainly definitely isn't and your uncle is a total perv, and you need to either tell someone or stay away from him. It's even WORSE that it's family, not better as a lot of people seem to think.

Lukiboy
March 28th, 2011, 10:21 AM
It is alittle weird, but too bad. It would only be bad if it is the beginning of more stuff like that.

maybe lil weird

saleoboy
March 28th, 2011, 10:44 AM
I also think it's slightly weird. Although having said that, my uncle showed me my first porn video, which I really appreciated. I think if he does it again you should definitely tell someone.

BOSS
March 28th, 2011, 11:55 AM
I would just...vomit if this happened. :eek: A little messed up if you ask me. :what:

walpurgusknight
March 28th, 2011, 01:04 PM
i hope youre making that up cause its really not right. if ur 16, u should be mature enough to tell ur uncle no. no offense but he has some problems

hollister_
March 28th, 2011, 08:04 PM
i hope youre making that up cause its really not right. if ur 16, u should be mature enough to tell ur uncle no. no offense but he has some problems

thank you!

yeah that is a bit weird though mister :|
tell someone?

mike.virtualteen
March 28th, 2011, 08:36 PM
I mean it isn't the first time I've seen his dick. We share a bed when I spend the nights. Ive seen him get out of the shower. I mean I've changed in front of him and he has in front of me. I'm extremely comfortable with my body and nudity

NCEMT
March 28th, 2011, 08:41 PM
I think its ok if your comfortable with it, but id be wise to it if it started happening over and over!

joe321
March 28th, 2011, 08:43 PM
i would say, if you're comfortable with it, then it's fine.

mike.virtualteen
March 28th, 2011, 09:02 PM
I mean him besides being my uncle, he's my best friend

Dimitri
March 28th, 2011, 09:04 PM
Theres nothing normal about that at all, your uncle shouldn't be doing that for quite a few reasons whether you're comfortable with it or not.
I have to gree with Kaius, there is nothing normal about this, I personally would talk to my parents about this because i think it is so wrong. I mean its cool (acceptable) for you and your mates but with your Uncle who is and not to mention almost 20years older than you. Sorry man, not cool.

mike.virtualteen
March 28th, 2011, 09:18 PM
So it's bad that he's almost 20 years older than me, but let's say if he was 10 years older then me? Would that change your mind?

screammonster123
March 28th, 2011, 09:51 PM
It's still kinda wrong if he started it y'know, like, if you were curious then I suppose it's ok, a teenage boy is gonna feel curious about other people compared to him, but a grown man shouldn't be exposing himself to you like that.

i agree its kinda weird but if your comfortable its okay but i wouldnt let it go any further from there

Dimitri
March 28th, 2011, 09:57 PM
I still think it would be wrong even ten years older than you..... sorry man

mike.virtualteen
March 29th, 2011, 01:58 AM
So just curious...do you think it's not good that me and my uncle share a bed when I spend the night and all we wear is a pair of underwear/boxers?

avid reader
March 29th, 2011, 02:17 AM
It's weird that he did it for you and showed you his practically out of nowhere.

Joshua_A
March 29th, 2011, 04:27 AM
It'd be perfectly natural for you and your uncle to see each other naked and check each other out if you were at the gym in the shower or sauna or something like that. but the way he did it was not natural at all. I'd ignore anything like that if it happened again. And if he tried to show you his boner or tries to get you to show yours you should tell your dad.

I agree 100% with this post cool Orpheus:yes::yes::yes:

ghostbom
March 29th, 2011, 08:49 AM
I personally classify unwanted contact as 'inappropriate' but it does really depend on what you would be comfortable with.

Oli S.
March 29th, 2011, 12:28 PM
yea this seems weird and not right to me....

Limelight788
March 29th, 2011, 07:05 PM
I mean it isn't the first time I've seen his dick. We share a bed when I spend the nights. Ive seen him get out of the shower. I mean I've changed in front of him and he has in front of me. I'm extremely comfortable with my body and nudityRegardless of how comfortable you are with your body and nudity, it does not change that fact that your uncle should not be showing your penis to you, especially if he asked you to show your penis to him in return.
So just curious...do you think it's not good that me and my uncle share a bed when I spend the night and all we wear is a pair of underwear/boxers?This would not be considered sexual abuse, so as long as no sexual activity develops between you and him, I do not see this as a problem.

Lucky5555
March 29th, 2011, 08:10 PM
if youre not bothered by then dont do anything.....if youre uncomfortable...tell someone.

Bobbyfishstick
March 29th, 2011, 11:15 PM
If you at all feel uncomfortable, you should tell someone. This is a sexual act. Its not right for him to do that. Do not allow this to happen again.

restricted NA
March 30th, 2011, 12:28 AM
ehh kind of weird that he did that , he's older and even if he was just playing around it's still really immature of him to do that.

Rayquaza
April 2nd, 2011, 08:23 PM
bit weird but doesnt seem wrong

MassiveAttack
April 2nd, 2011, 08:46 PM
bit weird but doesnt seem wrong

yeah, he is right, it does seem a bit weird an awkward... to me anyway haha

tpzy94
April 2nd, 2011, 08:52 PM
A little bit weird...but if u were comfortable not too bad.

agreed i mean personally im good but thats all you

Aussie16
April 5th, 2011, 07:12 AM
It sounds bad to me, but I know that often things are hard to portray in writing and your uncle could just be a weird sort of dude, so Im not going to judge :) But if it is how it appears then it is a bit wrong :|
xxxx

timster5454
April 5th, 2011, 06:39 PM
thats not normal. If you didn't feel uncomfortable then that makes it better, but he shouldn't be looking at your penis, and he definitely shouldn't have shown his to you. If it happens again I'd tell someone.

hollisterboi95
April 5th, 2011, 09:21 PM
i not saying its not normal nor am i saying its not, but its a 14 year age difference and he startted it. if you didnt mind then i guess it really doesnt matter. its hormones that make us curious and do things like that.

sontar
April 6th, 2011, 11:26 PM
What ever floats your boat it is a bit odd though

ponygon101
April 7th, 2011, 12:40 AM
It's very strange, you can be comparing with people but you shouldn't be doing it with adults, especially if it's your uncle. It's not that bad if you don't feel comfortable but it's still something you don't do. I'd say this is inappropriate behaviour.

CaliKiDD
April 7th, 2011, 01:15 AM
that is effing nasty that is your uncle...that should be rape...*puking*

salty
April 7th, 2011, 01:35 PM
Just think it sounds a bit odd to me

blaine97
April 10th, 2011, 06:37 PM
Odd:what:

Tristen
July 1st, 2011, 02:08 PM
So I was spending the night at my uncles house, he is 33. and i am 16 and we were in our underwear and I saw him without a shirt and I said "woah uncle Tommy your chest is really hairy" and then he said look what else is hairy and he just briefly pulled down his boxers and pulled them back up and he told me "i showed you mine, now show me yours man". I said to him "alright, come over here and see". I didn't pull down my underwear, he came over and just opened my waistband and looked in. I mean, it's normal right? Were both guys right? I did not feel uncomfortable. Do you think this was inappropriate behavior?

Sounds like you are both cool with it so guess it's ok.

Donkey
July 1st, 2011, 03:02 PM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked: