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December 17th, 2010, 08:39 PM
so guys...sometimes (alot actually) after I j/o and cum I feel guilty like I've done somthing wrong. Have you guys ever felt this way? I guess it's just from my religion being so uptight about sex and sexuality...but I still feel like ive done something wrong afterwards. Any tips on losing that feeling?

December 17th, 2010, 09:06 PM
dude, i totally feel the same way sometimes...

December 17th, 2010, 09:16 PM

December 17th, 2010, 09:16 PM
Nope that's completely normal in my experience. I used to have regret for it quite alot, but there is really no reason too, it's a natural process and is more beneficial than harmful to anything :)
Just revel in the glory lol
I guess it just takes time

December 17th, 2010, 09:39 PM
Dude, I feel that way too sometimes!

December 18th, 2010, 03:24 AM
Im religious. I used to feel guilty but now I don't. I don't think it's a sin.

December 18th, 2010, 03:32 AM
I used to feel like that at first, but you just get over it in time.

December 18th, 2010, 05:18 AM
i still feel like it and im not religious. I suppose i feel like im letting myself down and letting my friends down by doing it.

December 18th, 2010, 05:49 AM
A lot of it has to do with the views society has on sexuality, and sexual exploration. From a young age we are taught that sex is taboo, and that sex is essentially only good for one thing: procreation. This is an unfortunate stand point as exploring sexuality is freeing and invigorating.

When I first started doing it, I felt guilty due to the aforementioned stigma placed on sexual exploration, but soon I realized how silly it was and got over it fairly quickly.

December 18th, 2010, 10:07 PM
Thanks guys :) Good to know I'm not the onlyone who has felt/feels this way

December 18th, 2010, 10:23 PM
I feel guilty too but its for a reson I guess

December 18th, 2010, 11:33 PM
i get thatt feeling, and i just think "everyone does it, so i can do it too."

December 18th, 2010, 11:34 PM
sometimes...if ur a catholic like me u always will but hey it feels awesome so i keep doing it and im 14!

December 18th, 2010, 11:52 PM
before i did but now i dnt care because ik im not braking any rules where does it say in the bible that u cant j/o its a normal urge

December 22nd, 2010, 02:07 AM
yahh i get tht feeling from time to time

December 22nd, 2010, 03:24 AM
It goes away.

December 22nd, 2010, 04:05 AM
Yeah the first year or so when I first started to masturbate I felt that way but now I don't. It'll go away you'll soon feel normal and okay about it.

December 22nd, 2010, 06:10 AM
I get da feelin aswell, but i ay religioius tho!!

December 22nd, 2010, 08:00 AM
well im atheist so.....

December 22nd, 2010, 12:21 PM
this used to happen to me a lot when I was younger. I would feel really gross afterwards. But I think it was something I grew out of because it never happens to me anymore! lol

December 22nd, 2010, 12:47 PM
I get the same feeling but only when I'm jacking off while watching porn. After I ejaculate I kinda feel bad or disgusted..idk. But I only feel that way when I watch porn while jacking off!

December 22nd, 2010, 03:03 PM
i feel that way to sometimes. i think for me it depends on the circumstances.

December 22nd, 2010, 05:34 PM
i don't. everyone jacks off.