View Full Version : I don't know what I am anymore. =(

October 8th, 2009, 04:26 PM
Recently I got the thought that I was gay and I donít know why. At first I ignored it but it kept coming back and then I considered the fact that I might be gay but I donít feel any type of attraction to guys ( nor sexual or emotional). I even watched gay porn but it didnít turn me on in the least bit. I say Iím straight but the thoughts still come back. What should I do? Is this Normal. (Iím 13)

October 8th, 2009, 04:32 PM
If you are not attracted to guys, sexually or emotionally then you're not gay. It's probably just hormones making you slightly curious about these things. You are still young and barely into puberty, there's many years to find out how you feel. :)
Hope this helps. x

October 8th, 2009, 04:38 PM
Thank you. =)

October 8th, 2009, 05:15 PM
Well its hard to be gay without being attracted to guys. You havent actually said whether you're attracted to girls either. My feeling is that you're probably straight, but possibly just not really ready to fully know the answer just yet. You may need to wait until you get a bit further through puberty and see how things pan out.

October 8th, 2009, 06:02 PM
I do like girls ( especially sexually lol and emotionally) and I have my whole life. bu that thought came to me so sudden. I'm just wondering is there a reason behind why i thought of it.

October 9th, 2009, 02:29 PM
You sound rather straight to be honest. But your still young at 13, at that age I thought I was straight, but now I know I'm bi. These things take time.

October 11th, 2009, 10:51 AM
At 13 why worry? Just enjoy yourself and what happens, happens:)