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jack2012
September 22nd, 2009, 06:20 PM
okay so i identify myself as straight. i like having romantic relationships with girls and have some sexual attractions to them. on the other hand i have these fantasies about guys and have a strong sexual attraction to guys. so i am not sure if this is normal or what is wrong with me?

clr9823
September 22nd, 2009, 06:22 PM
Bi-curious in my opinion.
This should be in Teen Sexuality

Xenomi
September 22nd, 2009, 06:46 PM
yeah id say you are bi or bi-curious

Severus Snape
September 22nd, 2009, 06:53 PM
differentiate. Do you feel physically or emotionally attracted to the same sex?

DareDevil
September 23rd, 2009, 01:17 AM
No one here can really say for sure, but you. But if I had to give you a "definite" answer (or at least one without a lot of maybes) I'd say Bi, with the possibility that you are just clinging to the idea of a relationship with a girl because that's the norm.

I myself went through a phase pretty similar to the one you described before eventually accepting that, while I thought girls were great to talk to and all, I couldn't see myself in a relationship with one.

But again, the person who can give you the best answer is yourself (though hopefully we can nudge you along the right direction here)

nick
September 23rd, 2009, 01:47 AM
No one here can really say for sure, but you. But if I had to give you a "definite" answer (or at least one without a lot of maybes) I'd say Bi, with the possibility that you are just clinging to the idea of a relationship with a girl because that's the norm.

I myself went through a phase pretty similar to the one you described before eventually accepting that, while I thought girls were great to talk to and all, I couldn't see myself in a relationship with one.

But again, the person who can give you the best answer is yourself (though hopefully we can nudge you along the right direction here)
Thats a pretty good answer until the last bit, its not our job to nudge anyone in a particular direction.

It could just be a phase with raging hormones & stuff, or maybe you are bi. If you're not really sure just give it more time, stay cool and go with the flow. Dont feel the need to attach a label to your sexuality, just be yourself.

Zazu
September 23rd, 2009, 12:06 PM
Moved from P101 > Teen Sexuality

Shalom
September 23rd, 2009, 07:37 PM
Bisexual/Bicurious. It's all normal, you'll figure it out eventually!

mrmcdonaldduck
September 24th, 2009, 05:06 AM
bi or maybe curious, which is ok.

daveywavey
September 24th, 2009, 04:38 PM
since ur the only one that can be the judge of how you feel, with the statement u gave, and noteing the simliar effects i had, which may not even apply to you at all, cause everyone is different, and hormones work on people in different ways, i do however know that alot of straight guys like gay porn, and alot of gay guys like straight porn, its really the EMOTIONAL attraction you feel, can you see yourself spending the rest of your life with a guy or is it just something that you think about your really horny, theres alot of different questions i can ask to help assist you,b ut i dont want you to overthink something that might even be just a small phase, alltho with my presonal thingy i thought it was a phase for awhile, till i was about 12 or 13, and realized, i could see myeslf with a boy or girl, alltho im really more into boys right now

sorry that was kind of a rant i hope it helps some


davey